Well, that's how this feels. That, or the Twilight Zone, and an alternate universe just sounds less creepy. I don't think I could have prepared any differently for suddenly having a child in my home–I think it will take time to feel more normal, no matter what. All weirdness aside, we're doing pretty well. Sleeping has gotten easier for him, and he sleeps in much later than we do in the mornings, which is a blessing! He hasn't gotten to spend much time with Chad yet, so he is very clingy with me and wouldn't let Chad put him to bed last night. I understand completely, but I'm hoping this weekend helps both of them with their relationship. I did finally have a meltdown last night, which made me feel MUCH better. I've had all these emotions churning since Tuesday (just Tuesday??) and I needed to let them out. Today he has a visit with his birth mom, and I don't know how that will affect him. We're taking it one day at a time. One hour at a time!
Thoughts, prayers, hugs, blessings, love and confidence in you and the Lord–from our house to yours.
I’m sure he’ll get used to me, it will just take time. He and I will have to spend some quality time together this weekend! Maybe we can make popcorn together! 🙂
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’ve been thinking of you and praying for you a lot Allyson. What a blessing you are going to be to this precious little guy!
i’ve been praying for you a lot too. just imagining all the different emotions and feelings everyone involved in this must have–so tough. Chad, you’re right. He will just need some extra time to feel comfortable with you, just because of the nature of things. He’s with Allyson all day and only gets to see you for a couple hours before bed. A couple of weekends will cure that, i’m sure. You guys are doing great. Keep us posted on anything you need, especially how we can pray specifically.! Love you guys!
hoping this weekend help solidify his comfort level with you guys, and the visit went ok today. love you all 🙂
I’ve been thinking about you all week, trying to imagine what it would be like to suddenly be responsible for a two-year old in my own home. You’re right: I don’t think you could have prepared any differently. Moment by moment is the only way to handle such big shifts. And I know you (and Chad) well enough to know that you’re doing a terrific job by this little guy, no matter how crazy it all feels.
Wondering how you are doing… wanting to drop in with the kids, but don’t want to bug you during a precious nap either…. Praying hard for all three of you.